I definitely think he’s not dad material but then that should be her reason is “you don’t display traits where I can trust you’ll be there for everything” or “what would you do if the baby has a dirty diaper” she just used the ex for the reason. I don’t think either of them should have a kid together. Shekinas daughter was giving her mom relationship and life advice. I just don’t think it’s right to hold someone else accountable for someone else’s actions. Hold sarper accountable for his own stuff and there’s plenty of it. At least 2500

I think the family talking about kids made him kinda rethink and reimagine the fantasy but really with a baby they can’t be getting intimate as often as they do or travel and do all the stuff they do. They seem to enjoy being in the night life and that’s not doable with a newborn

She said that whenever she goes down stairs she greeted with hostile looks but every time TJ gets home she’s giving him looks and even at the wedding was giving people ugly looks while getting henna. It’s a language barrier and it’s just as much their fault as it is her fault that they don’t have a common language. It’s hard to talk when you don’t speak the language so I’m sure it feels awkward to go down stairs but yash knows the language if she’s desperate to go out she could go with him. They made amends but now they’re un doing it. All the time she spends at home she could be working on learning Hindi or teaching the mom English. Kimberly puts no effort in. And TJ is just enjoying his cycle of work come home repeat and he doesn’t want any disturbances to that

I hate how she looks at moving to America as yohan scamming her. The DR is not a wealthy place and it’s hard to make money there. IT’s financially smart for him to get an American job and they can vacation in the DR regularly. I get what he’s saying he makes very little money and paying half of her 2k rent and sees no benefit from it. If you’re going half on bills then it should be half on other things too. But he has to ask permission to rent a car and all this stuff. It’s like when she wants to go out they have to split the bill but when he wants to go out “where’s the money for this yohan” she’s very hypocritical and very controlling with the money. I think she has insecurities about him scamming her. I don’t think he wanted to scam her but I think at this point all he sees in her is “stick it out for the green card”

Yes! Even with the power Wayne told her “we have backup I’ve showed you how to turn it on a million times” she just refuses to absorb any life skills or the reality around her she’s so not self aware

I think these cultures typically view this show as discussing taboo topics for women. So it would probably be rare to see it. Finding someone willing to break cultural norms, willing to publicly talk about their relationship and the ins and out, opening yourself up to the opinions of others all is usually frowned upon ESPECIALLY for women in some of these more conservative areas

I think these cultures typically view this show as discussing taboo topics for women. So it would probably be rare to see it. Finding someone willing to break cultural norms, willing to publicly talk about their relationship and the ins and out, opening yourself up to the opinions of others all is usually frowned upon ESPECIALLY for women in some of these more conservative areas

Has she had the baby yet? Because honestly she could be going through PPD and adding that to her already tight emotional state….

Has she had the baby yet? Because honestly she could be going through PPD and adding that to her already tight emotional state….

I think this is a kink tbh. Especially how he wants her to be his “orgasmic b****” it sounds like he just enjoys his moments with her and wants to “domesticate” her in a sexual way not an abusive way (which sometimes those lines can blur) he wants her to look a certain way to FIT his physique. Which I think isn’t exactly terrible if you’re looking at it from a “hey I want you to train me to look like todays standard girl” versus unsolicited argue on her physical. I think you hit it right on the money he wants her to be thrilled she’s his machine. And some people are into that. But both parties need to know and consent to that

Lolo missed the wedding because he had to go get the bugs to release at night

They probably would that’s very much how my culture is. Even if you can barely afford the kids. And a miscarriage isn’t a medical thing it’s “not having enough faith” or you doing something wrong. I’m glad the world is getting more educated on how much of a toll pregnancy really does and can take on a persons body. I had HG during my pregnancies and it was terrible. Loosing more than 30% of my body weight and constantly stressing about my health and the babies health. I had never even heard of it until I had it. There’s really not much education about it all. A lot of the education is based on “don’t get pregnant until you’re married” and then “hurry and get pregnant”

I think this is a cultural thing. I come from a culture that is very much still this way. As a woman it’s your duty to birth the children and maintain the home. It’s a very prideful thing when a woman has multiple children especially back to back. Even how the mom said pregnancy is hard but she should sacrifice. Using the word sacrifice is such a different take on how America views pregnancy as a step towards a family not so much a sacrifice

I feel like yash was trying to keep it semi mutual by telling her just a few drops. I bet her did it more sparingly than what he does in his area downstairs because he understand the cultural differences