I definitely don’t think these two will have a healthy relationship and I think they need to separate ASAP. But I also feel like shekinah was being a little unfair to the baby conversation. Tell him that her ex made her raise a kid alone and that she doesn’t wanna do it again- but not giving him the opportunity to prove different. Her ex husband didn’t work out in marriage so she could say the same things about marriage but she’s not. If she doesn’t wanna have a baby that’s 100% her choice and her line to draw but I feel like using her past as an excuse is unfair to sarper. He can’t change what happened and he can’t show her the future. Deny him a baby because you don’t want your body to go through that not this “well my ex did this and that” I feel like that’s a really immature way to view things. Same with Mary’s “I’m insecure because I’ve been done wrong” I get it that it’s hard to think someone will do you right after so many failures. But to hold you current partner that you say you trust, love, and want a future with accountable for YOUR past is unfair. There’s plenty of reasons for them to not have a baby but her dwelling on that just irks me and feels very high school
She was set on not having kids when they met, so this is a Sarper problem for changing his mind, which, by the way, only seemed like he did after getting pressure from his parents. I get what you’re saying about the reasoning behind her decision, but unfortunately, trauma is also unfair, and it will affect future relationships in one way or another.
I think the family talking about kids made him kinda rethink and reimagine the fantasy but really with a baby they can’t be getting intimate as often as they do or travel and do all the stuff they do. They seem to enjoy being in the night life and that’s not doable with a newborn