Kalani keeps saying Asuelu cheated 12 times, but she also alluded to his ‘cheating’ in America as online chats with cam-girls? She makes it sound like he physically cheated 12 separate times. What’s the real story here? I know chatting with girls could be considered cheating…but I feel like she’s intentionally making it sound like it was ‘physical’ cheating, to justify her own behaviour. Thoughts?

    • jokenaround@alien.topBEnglish
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      11 months ago

      Bad answer.

      Here is a lesson for you….If a partner cheats once, the scale of what is considered cheating changes. Broken trust one time shatters any level of trust.

      • MoonKatSunshinePup@alien.topBEnglish
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        11 months ago

        It’s a BAD ANSWER because THAT’S NOT WHAT WAS BEING ASKED.

        I agree it’s cheating. But I’m apparently the only one who cares to answer OPs question at face value instead of giving her some weird lecture about what is and isn’t cheating. Which she didn’t ask and probably doesn’t need.

        People want to know if this does actually physically pulled 10 partners physically. THAT’S FINE. i gave the answer.

        He did not have intercourse with x amount of women.

        He’s still a cheater.

        • jokenaround@alien.topBEnglish
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          11 months ago

          I read this whole post differently than you and I can see both sides. The title asks if he cheated, the post then alludes to the fact that OP doesn’t agree that online sexual conversations is cheating (AFTER Asuelu was outed as a physical cheater), thinks it’s an American thing to consider that cheating (LOL). So a lot of commenters are rejecting that thought process.