I read this whole post differently than you and I can see both sides. The title asks if he cheated, the post then alludes to the fact that OP doesn’t agree that online sexual conversations is cheating (AFTER Asuelu was outed as a physical cheater), thinks it’s an American thing to consider that cheating (LOL). So a lot of commenters are rejecting that thought process.

Bad answer.

Here is a lesson for you….If a partner cheats once, the scale of what is considered cheating changes. Broken trust one time shatters any level of trust.