Kalani keeps saying Asuelu cheated 12 times, but she also alluded to his ‘cheating’ in America as online chats with cam-girls? She makes it sound like he physically cheated 12 separate times. What’s the real story here? I know chatting with girls could be considered cheating…but I feel like she’s intentionally making it sound like it was ‘physical’ cheating, to justify her own behaviour. Thoughts?

  • MoonKatSunshinePup@alien.topB
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    1 year ago

    Bad answer. This isn’t what is being asked. The question is plainly did he have physical sex that many times and the answer is no.

    Did he cheat 12 times? Sure.

    Did he have sex or anything physical 12 times? No.

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      1 year ago

      The literal question to this post is “Did Asuelu really cheat 12 times?” We literally just watched him give no fucks at the strip club even though he knew Kalani wouldn’t be ok with it in the last episode. Who knows what he was up to with those cam girls. I doubt he only had appropriate conversations with with them.

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          1 year ago

          This is what I’m talking about, Kilani saying he cheated 12 times is totally her trying to down play her side piece that she fell in love with. Like yes he was talking to women and got a BJ once. Kilani is taking that rod and keeps going back to it. What kilani is doing is way worse

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            1 year ago

            Divorce that fool, or keep it platonic.

            I know this seems difficult for some to process, but “making it work” is a TERRIBLE way to have a relationship.

            Fvck making anything work unless there’s money involved. Even then, I would rather struggle and make the money back than CHOOSE to deal with bum behavior.

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            1 year ago

            What do you mean downplay? What he did is plenty horrible. He continuously treated her like shit for all those years and the only way he realized how awful it feels to get cheated on was for Kalani to give him a taste of his own medicine. I don’t agree with her actions but they’re on a therapy show where they are there to share their stories. Asuelu is still on this show texting other women while he’s supposedly finally “invested” in saving their marriage and continues to try hiding it. Kalani isn’t worse than Asuelu. They both suck!

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              1 year ago

              We don’t know that he was actually deleting messages from girls. I thought it could be messages from the guys about plans to go to the strip club. Also, ppl cheating (kalani) often get paranoid and make baseless accusations. They both suck equally

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                1 year ago

                You have a good point. We really don’t know what the truth is except that they are both lying to one another by hiding things. Either way it doesn’t help his case about him trying to look like he’s the one who truly cares to save his marriage this time.

    • payasoingenioso@alien.topB
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      1 year ago

      It’s the oddest of behavior to tell someone “bad answer.”

      Odd af.

      No gavel.

      No law degree as far as I know.

      Yet, you are the last word.

      So odd. 😂