Kalani keeps saying Asuelu cheated 12 times, but she also alluded to his ‘cheating’ in America as online chats with cam-girls? She makes it sound like he physically cheated 12 separate times. What’s the real story here? I know chatting with girls could be considered cheating…but I feel like she’s intentionally making it sound like it was ‘physical’ cheating, to justify her own behaviour. Thoughts?
Keep in mind she grew up Mormon which lends towards very strict rules surrounding sex and “intimate” interactions with the opposite sex. I wouldn’t be surprised if her definition of “cheating” is a lot broader than many people’s would be. That doesn’t mean it’s right or wrong if Asuelu knew and agreed to those boundaries.
For instance, I don’t really care if my husband opts to sleep with someone else, I don’t want to know and I trust him to make good, safe choices. But if he snoops through my phone, that’s grounds for serious divorce talks. I firmly believe everyone is entitled to privacy and even with nothing to hide (I’m boring AF!), I would be absolutely crushed to know he violated that.
Idk, unpopular opinion but I think Kalani is delulu when it comes to relationships. She clearly has no experience, and no matter which way she spins it, it doesn’t sound like they were actually in a relationship when she got pregnant (and that story has changed, too).