I am so sorry your mother made you feel insecure. That’s not what parents are supposed to do. I think you’re a class act. You are kind, smart, poise, and funny. Jovie is lucky to have you. I don’t know if no if he was always an addict, if it’s editing, or if it got worse bc of filming. Either way- get your apartment in Europe. Be close to your family. Jovi has the ability to go and visit where ever he chooses. You do not have to sit in the swamp and wait for him to realize what he actions are doing to you. I love 90 day fiancé bc it’s trash TV. You girl, are not trash. TAKE. IT. OUT.
I understand all that you wrote.
My HUGE issue with Jovi, and the entire discussion about Yara and Mylah spending time in Europe is:
Yara’s home country was invaded and is now at war with Russia. We saw her in near tears (quite understandably). But Jovi still trying to control her.
What Jovi should have said, around Mar 2021: “I understand. We are just a couple of weeks away from your green-card getting approved. The very day it is approved, you will book plane tickets for you and Mylah to join your mother and your friends in Prague. This will be good for you, for your family, and for Mylah. When my work is done, I will come join you there.”
Instead, Jovi went all controlling, wanting to prevent Yara from travelling without him, and then insisting she would leave Europe and her friends / family, to sit at home alone with Mylah, watching CNN, while he again went back to work without her for weeks.
Finally, with Jovi’s job, he could tell his job to land him basically anywhere in the world after a job, and they would be able to oblige. The plane tickets are the absolute LEAST EXPENSIVE part of his contracts. Plus his miles are almost certainly his own to use at his discretion.