BoJack also had a lot of power over Penny. Age, celebrity status, bigger body… we will never know if perhaps Penny felt like she couldn’t say no and went along with it. That wouldn’t be grooming. Sounds like what happened to me as a kid, which was coercion.
All in all, never felt sorry for BoJack in this plot line. He fucked up big time.
Ha. The family friend thing sounds like my situation and didn’t even connect those dots. I remember the first moment where I think he stood there debating if he was gonna assault me. Poor impulse control, history of extensive trauma, unchecked anger issues and substance abuse… those are all risk factors for committing acts of sexual violence. BoJack would definitely have let his impulses get the best of him if Charlotte didn’t walk in.