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Cake day: October 16th, 2023

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  • One’s privacy is huge. However, when something that may impact your significant other’s choice is compromised, you better believe it’s a problem. Some may not want to be married to someone who’s bi or at least wants to be in the know and not possibly one day be gob smacked by it. Also I can’t see someone never telling their partner a year or 2 after they’ve married when the other says. “babe, I want to have a baby” and they say, oh “I had a vasectomy years ago or I had surgery that may prevent me from ever having children. I’m sorry I didn’t tell you.” And expect them not to be hurt or upset by this. Possibly even feel betrayed. Even if they love you enough to forgive you for it, that initial reaction is not going to be a good one. And they may feel a trust has been broken.