I can’t tell if the producers are just picking couples that have major secrets for the drama. But I can’t imagine being in a long-distance relationship in which all you can do is talk on the phone — and yet when you start the 90 days you are only just finding out major life details about your partner??

  • Gino didn’t tell Jasmine about quitting
  • Jasmine lied about the butt implants
  • Nikki only admitted she was trans during a fight
  • Sophie hadn’t told Rob about her ovary cyst surgery
  • Ashley didn’t tell her fiancé she was a witch
  • Her partner (sorry forgot his name but would never forget Rico MFing Suave) lied to his family about where he was

There might be more as I’m only a few episodes in. It’s just odd to me because I could never keep major life events like that to myself in a relationship. Is that just more normal than I realise??

  • kckitty71@alien.topBEnglish
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    10 months ago

    Didn’t Sophie tell Rob that she had the surgery? Maybe I heard wrong. But, if I didn’t want kids, that would definitely be something I’d discuss with my fiancé before flying to the states.

    • BreaRoePhilly@alien.topBEnglish
      1·
      10 months ago

      And she definitely should have. Truth of the matter is, if she kept it from him there’s a reason why she felt she had to, the same with her being bi-sexual. She thinks it’s a chance he may want nothing to do with her if she forthcoming about certain things. Honestly, he’d be doing her a favor.

      • TamasaurusRex@alien.topBEnglish
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        10 months ago

        I think she’s just a child. I had to have surgery for a type of reproductive cancer like 6months into my relationship with my now husband and he not only stuck it out through the 4 months of bleeding and recovery but he still married me.

        Homegirl just gotta be honest about it. If a guy acts like an idiot over it he doesn’t deserve you