Maybe they haven’t shown it, but I don’t get supportive vibes from her at all. They talk once a month at most. And it seems like all she wants to talk about is how horrible Mary is, instead of getting to know and building a relationship with her son.
Right, Mary is awful.
That said, when you’ve been an absent parent for your child’s whole life, I don’t think it is your place to step in once they’re 23 and criticize their choices to hell. At least get to know them and build a meaningful relationship with them first, which according to Brandan, they don’t have, (speaking on the phone maybe once per month).