1 thousand percent this. It’s not enough for her to say “oh I grew up in a toxic home I don’t want that” there has to be reckoning, recovery, sometimes yes therapy. Work has to go into recognizing patterns, establishing support systems that aren’t TJ, etc. Is there a term for passport bros (passport hos?) when it’s pretty clear the relationship is just a weird fetishization or self medication?

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8y1R1Qe/

The sign said no shirt no service.

Didn’t say anything if it had to be buttoned.

Informed consent is: “I’d like to touch your genitals, do you have a preference on the type of touch you like?” Informed consent is NOT: a detailed history of any and all medical procedures or body modifications. Disclosing information that may endanger them (trans ppl are statistically more likely to be victims than abusers).

For any cis ppl still confused, pls outline at which point you explicitly describe your gender presentation and genitals to potential sexual partners, what type of history you provide as to their shape or function, etc. Nikki being a reality show stereotype doesn’t negate the reality of how trans ppl exist in actual reality.

The way he pouted when she wasn’t interested in sex. Like the entire living room WASN’T a guinea pig play area and mom WASN’T directly on the other side of the wall. Adult men and their audacity. A series brought to you by the producers of 90 Day.