also in ZA and, not doubting you, but where do you live?
I’m in Cape Town and am prescribed fifteen 0.5mg of Xanax per month and my pharmacist is counting that shit carefully in case of a State audit (unlikely to ever happen… I know!).
tik and heroin are easy to come by, but have never known Xanax to be a street drug here…
that’s been the word on “the street” (Reddit)!
nah, take a look at the subs about finance in ZA.
most ppl here find it impossible to even save $100 a month. the cost of living is soaring and the majority of ppl are in a scary amount of debt.
there’s no way that, with a struggling business, he had forty grand in USD budgeted just for a HONEYMOON!
think she’s self-soothing while she pretends these comments are hilarious and don’t bother her.
so fucking stupid, but remember that 40k Rand is about $2100.
it’s no Gino nest egg!
flashback to Sojaboy hugging his PS5 more fiercely than he ever hugged Kimbaaaahly…
… coming to a town near you!
100% fearmongering, xenophobic, ein Platz an der Sonne, Nazi rhetoric.
I had an acquaintance - who I will keep at a further distance now - tell me about how even children in Palestine have been brainwashed and so it’s best to just mow down the whole population because no one is innocent or can be trusted.
I live in South Africa, which is and always has been very pro-Palestine, as its the last remaining form of apartheid… I was gobsmacked to hear this from a South African.
she has two modes: visibly angry or hysterically crying.
not in the U.S.
trying to figure out if the U.S. requires abused spouses to support their ex, but resources for victims is what comes up… for admittedly good reason— victims shouldn’t be worrying about money, but rather getting out.
anyone know if you have to support your piece of shit ex if they committed marital r*ape?
Kalani said she has proof of assault.
“If masturbation’s a crime, I should be on death row.”
I think that’s an old Gilbert Gottfried joke.
table for two! I thought, “my god… should I even keep reading?”
sorry for all you went through, lanegrita. hope you’re doing well on the other side. (& that you got to keep the dog!)
I hate to be all uppity on a sub that’s meant to be silly, but I have a law degree (albeit in South Africa). I don’t practice, but I’m educated on the subject.
she has proof that he assaulted her and is ready to come forward. it isn’t the worst thing in the world that she did this on social media, but it does complicate the case.
she needs to stop posting about him. like I said, any lawyer (or intelligent family member or friend) would tell her this.
everything she has said needs to be investigated by the police and tried in a court of law, not public opinion. she’s opening herself up to a defamation case. sorry, but that’s the reality.
you’re a fantastic virtue signaler. totseins!
what did I say to indicate that I don’t believe her?
I don’t understand how she’s handling it. any lawyer would tell her to stop posting about him. would you want to share custody with someone who has a history of sexual assault? a divorce can turn into a defamation case…
I’m in the camp of believing victims, but I’m so confounded by how she’s handling the accusations that she’s made.
It makes no sense (in my mind) to announce on Instagram that Asuleu r*ped her throughout their marriage and then continue to nitpick the comparatively small things, like him at the strip club and her “girl math.”
Work on healing. Work on custody. Work on finding a stable income. Work on the divorce. If nothing else, work on getting off a television program that forces you to be with him.
If you’re still thirsty for television time, take your smokey cat-eyes and go join the other misfits over on The Single Life.
wow! learned something new about the city today!
I go to 420 Doctor in GP - maybe there’s a secret handshake I learn to learn…