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Cake day: November 9th, 2023

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  • I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you, truly.

    To readers like me, it is not “weird” at all to read books again and again for escape! Please don’t ever think that. Bookworms love books for this reason. That’s what stories/novels are for. Storytelling can also be used to teach us valuable life lessons, but for a lot of people, it’s for the entertainment. I think it’s COMPLETELY “healthy” to help yourself get through grief with this method. I can’t think of a healthier way.

    My “comfort book” was always the Narnia series. I used to read them about once a year and often when I was going through loss. I also had a companion book written by Paul Ford and he said that he had met many readers of Narnia who said the same thing, that they read it when they wanted to “go home”. Now, I’m no longer a Christian so I don’t get the same fuzzy feelings from them as I used to and thus don’t have a single go-to book anymore. But I read a lot of fantasy and instead of re-reading, I’ll just read a lot by the same author. So I’ve read a bunch of LJ Smith, Cassandra Clare, Patricia Wrede, Robin McKinley, Neil Gaiman, etc. Once I find a voice/vibe I like, I read all I can.


  • I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you, truly.

    To readers like me, it is not “weird” at all to read books again and again for escape! Please don’t ever think that. Bookworms love books for this reason. That’s what stories/novels are for. Storytelling can also be used to teach us valuable life lessons, but for a lot of people, it’s for the entertainment. I think it’s COMPLETELY “healthy” to help yourself get through grief with this method. I can’t think of a healthier way.

    My “comfort book” was always the Narnia series. I used to read them about once a year and often when I was going through loss. I also had a companion book written by Paul Ford and he said that he had met many readers of Narnia who said the same thing, that they read it when they wanted to “go home”. Now, I’m no longer a Christian so I don’t get the same fuzzy feelings from them as I used to and thus don’t have a single go-to book anymore. But I read a lot of fantasy and instead of re-reading, I’ll just read a lot by the same author. So I’ve read a bunch of LJ Smith, Cassandra Clare, Patricia Wrede, Robin McKinley, Neil Gaiman, etc. Once I find a voice/vibe I like, I read all I can.



  • Neil Gaiman. Don’t care what the plot is, I know it’ll have beautiful prose and will take me on a weird journey.

    Juliette Marillier. I love her descriptions of nature on long journeys.

    Cassandra Clare. I love her characters. They’re so real and described often but not repetitively (for me).

    Patricia Wrede. She has “cozy” fantasy and has a great blog.