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Cake day: October 24th, 2023

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  • I agree. She was laughable because she claims to be clairvoyant but didn’t see ANY OF THIS COMING. But I do take isolation and depression seriously and that relationship was not nurturing on his end. And perhaps it is cultural, but even if she spoke the language, I don’t think the MIL and the brother would warm up to her. Especially if Kim was unwilling or unable to fulfill whatever role was expected of her.

    The whole marriage was DOA but it is unfortunate to see that TJ lacks the maturity and compassion to be a loving husband.



  • I taught high school Spanish, and imo Ashley has the skills of someone who has taken 4 years of Spanish. In a spontaneous conversation, she can get her point across but as others have stated on this thread, she doesn’t always use the right tense all the time. She avoids most complex verb phrasing. It is normal for someone who someone who didn’t take Spanish courses in college and for most people who use an app to learn the language. Apps don’t cover everything, of course. All of that considered, I do admire her fluency and confidence for sure.







  • I had made such a comment and I was more referring to the customs regarding the wedding and homemaking, the rituals themselves, etc. She may have lived there but she did so as an American student/tourist. She didn’t likely come and stay studying the very things that she’s going through now as a wife. She obviously didn’t adopt the religion, or learn the language. So clearly living there wasn’t enough to prepare for actually being a citizen there.