Yeah I realized I forgot about that lol. Too much drama to keep up with 😆

If you’ve seen anything she’s put on social media, it’s obvious she’s an asshole in real life too lol. But I did feel for her in that moment, and there are other times I’ve had sympathy for her as well. She did try to talk about what was bothering her, and she got shut down. I also think Jenny coming for her on the Tell All is some bullshit. It’s gonna be a long fall off that high horse.

I don’t like either one of them. But if we’re just talking smack about Ashley here–her scenes sometimes trigger me. She’s one of those “friends” who’s always in the middle of some crisis or another, until she finally drains the everloving life out of you and you can’t take it anymore. Everything is me me me! And look at this totally fabricated drama that I got my own damn self into, don’t you feel sorry for meeee??? She’s attention seeking and self sabotaging. I can see why some people might like her though–she has a few good things to say, and some zingers too. But IDK, I see through it. I can’t handle people like her. When you’re even a semi decent person, people like her will just take, take, take everything you have to give.

Icky. He’s like JP from Love is Blind.

Also … she’s wearing a full face??

Yes, I predict Mama Mike 2.0. She’s going to call Anali something derogatory under her breath, thinking she won’t understand, except it’ll be one of the few English words she does…dum dum duuuuuuuuuuummmmm!

Yeah I’d let her drink me under the table.

Shit, I’d hire Rebecca as a PI. We could be true crime nerds together.

Despite all of her flaws, I think Danielle genuinely was in love with Yohan, and also probably flattered by the interest of someone younger and good looking (re: the comments about his dick size, etc). It was surface level, naive and misguided, but I digress. I suspect part of the reason she flipped the script on bringing Yohan to the US was to hopefully prove to herself that he loved her for more than a free ride out of the DR. And now she’s finding out that that’s not the case. Yohan only has one interest, and that’s numero uno.

Some people are calling Yohan’s behavior justified, but I think his coldness and entitlement are a bit disconcerting (well, more than a bit). He’s just so calculated. He has never looked at her with the same warmth she has for him. He was always using her. That’s not ok either. I think he only went out and got an actual job now as a means to get some kind of leverage over her, or out of spite. And IDK, I’d be concerned about moving someone with such an apparent lack of work ethic to my country with me as well. What’s Yohan going to DO in the US? He hasn’t learned English, for starters, nor does he appear to have any specific kind of skillset. Kinda limits the job prospects.

At the end of the day, two people can both be in the wrong. Danielle was naive, plus she’s controlling and self righteous. But that doesn’t excuse Yohan’s extreme sense of entitlement, simply because he is the MAN. There’s something simmering barely under the surface with him, and despite my dislike of Danielle, it does make me a little worried for her.

If my spouse needs to take my card to the ATM, he 100% asks first. That’s how that works. We aren’t entitled to each other’s funds just because we are married.

100%. My husband and I don’t have a joint account either. It just never seemed necessary because we’re pretty good communicators. Super hypothetical, because I know he never would, but if he ever just took my card without telling me, and then lied about it when confronted besides, I’d fully consider filing divorce papers. Fuck no.