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Cake day: October 17th, 2023

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  • I don’t understand your point.

    Afaik, she told TJ how she wanted her apartment to be. Understandably, TJ took care of it. Then she arrived and saw it for the first time.

    How does maybe choosing colors, mouldings and such in a catalog familiarise you with how a household is run, what they expect from you, what the life of a typical woman in their community is, … ?

    Living there for a year should have helped her get familiarised with many things that seemed to be a problem: clothes, craftmanship, diets, how many people actually speak English, … apparently she lived like a tourist, I imagine?


  • No idea why you chuck in the construction issues there. Nobody says she should know that she should have googled their work/construction practices.

    Finding out what your responsibilities are going to be in the household, what the rituals conducted on your wedding are (even more when you are so “spiritual”), learning their dietary customs, … she seems to know nothing. She complains about it, though.

    Moving across the globe without spending as much as a weekend in google… apparently not even watching videos of weddings like yours that are foreign to you… it all reads very lazy princess-like.





  • I’ve lately watched a few “First Dates” clips.

    Almost all women get really angry when the man doesn’t pay for dinner. It’s usually 100-200USD. And it’s a deal-breaker when men ask to share the bill.

    A friend of mine was very keen on prostitution. His argument was “at least I know how much I pay and what I’m gonna get”.