When Jazmine was explaining her abandonment issues and their origins I’ve never felt so validated. She explained that she was abandoned by her father and that he made very sure to let her know how much her existence was regretted as a mistake… can relate to a similar later life experience.
When she said “when someone as close as your own father doesn’t love you… how can you ever believe any man would or could love you…?”
She also explained that what her dad had done had messed with her mind her entire life. Thanks for being honest Jazmine. I see you.
She makes me feel seen 😭 I watched it and cried!
Same! I have bpd and I know anyone with bpd symptoms will always be villainized but she really makes me feel like im not alone
I see you ♥️ right there with you. People use “abandonment issue” so flippantly that they don’t realize that having a crisis over perceived abandonment (for those that deal with this issue) is literally like your brain regresses to a time in development where being left alone meant literal death (eg. a baby that cannot fend for themselves ) - the reaction looks so over the top and ridiculous because it’s as if in that moment she is 1-4 years old … because in that moment she literally is
That moment made me cry as well. Never knew my real dad. My stepdad never wasted an opportunity to tell me how unwanted, odd, fat, dumb and unlovable I was.
Cue a history of garbage relationships where I allowed men to treat me terribly because I thought that’s the best I could ever hope for.
Living in an environment of constant criticism programs you in strange ways. For me, it impacted my work. I tend to overreact to criticism. Not to the level of Jasmine.
It took me 50 years to come to these realizations. Hopefully Jasmine will get therapy and heal her past.
I said this a while ago, because I also have borderline… I can understand her thinking and actions
OP, she even says the worse thing you can do is not love her. Of course this isn’t excusing her behavior but it gives a better understanding of why she acts the way she does.
Waaaaaaaa I’m Jasmine waaaaaaaa waaaaaaa
❤️ I felt this way too and this was when I started really liking her . I applaud her vulnerability and her strength. And I love her crazy ass
i partially disagree. even though i can feel sympathy for per past experiences, and understand how they probably warped her mind, they don’t excuse her emotional abuse of gino
Through and through.
Surw, sure, sure… That must be why she abandoned her kids and makes sure they know that Gino, and her fake body parts, are more important than they are.
I cannot believe the pass people give this woman.
Jasmine’s reaction was way over the top. Her explanation doesn’t give her the right to go insane on Gino 24/7 the way she does. Millions of people get abandoned by a parent. Doesn’t make them all psychopaths. She has trust issues but she also gets an apartment in the same building as her handsome ex and she also screamed at one point that she was sleeping with him and she got 2k from him to have her butt done. AND SHE HAS TRUST ISSUES? The one who should be screaming his lungs out is Gino.
I don’t even watch them anymore, fast forward all the way. It’s ridiculously fake and repetitive. She’s got issues for sure, just look at all the surgery, but if her explosive insanity is really who she is there’s no excusing it. She doesn’t try and fix it and she’s sneaky and manipulative. Hard to love that. I’d be worried too if I was her, because she’s one to run from as fast as you can.
Same, everytime she sobs or yells, I fast forward.
Just because she has trauma (many of us do) it doesn’t give her the right to yell at others and manipulate.
She could have spent that 10K getting specific trauma therapy and EMDR. I’m out the other side now. Therapy is tough. It forces you to face hard memories, but is worth the work.
how much do you want to bet that he also physically and emotionally abused her mother, teaching her to do that to gino?
She is a 35- year old woman. Stop making excuses for her abusive behavior!!
if you actually read the few words that i wrote, you can see that i never excused her abuse. i’m pointing out the well-known phenomenon that people who are abused or witness abuse are more likely to abuse people later in life. you can take your ignorance and bad posting over to mastodon.
Don’t doubt this, Gino definitely gives “abused behind closed door” vibes and I’m not at all trying to make light of that … she’s scary af and things escalate so quickly
Daddy issues for sure
And whose fault is that but her fathers!
That’s probably why she was so steadfast to make sure that her children would never feel abandoned by a parent or she could bail on them to try and achieve c list celebrity status
Maybe she should have used his money on therapy instead of hair extensions and a butt job 🤔
She stopped getting extensions so he can save money and Gino only gave her 40% of the BBL money 😂
didnt hear cause I cannot stand her voice.
Ugh the goddamn father issue. It took til I was 30~ to discover and heal those dynamics. I appreciate her vulnerability there.
I more related to “I didn’t bring any money because I don’t have any money”
Where was her mom?
Then why in the fuck would she abandon her own kid??? You’d think she would have some sort of compassion. But she got her butt implants so… She’s good.
Sympathy pitch maybe