As a therapist, I’m horrified by this woman’s toxic, abusive behavior. Can you imagine how women would react if this was a man demanding sex violently? What I wish Nikki could see is the amount of toxic masculinity that she puts out there. Her man is taking giant risks in a culture that is not accepting. And he should because that’s what we do for loved ones. She recognizes none of this. It’s just so sick and sad to watch this.

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    As soon as they got in that car she started to berate him without him saying anything at all. Any other couple it would be a start to a nice day. There’s no way to spin this edit to make her look any better or worse because she’s simply the worst.

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    She’s so pushy and so demanding, and doesn’t compromise for him at all.

    When she wanted to dress “conservative sexy”? I was like, girl, the whole point of conservative dress is to NOT be sexy! Who wants to look sexy when they meet their potential future in laws!? Especially when the culture is so traditional, ugh. I get it, be yourself, but you can’t cover the tatas for a couple hours?

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    Watching this segment of the show makes me physically ill. As you said, if a man did this, it would be called harassment and that’s exactly what she’s doing and she doesn’t stop. He’s done everything she asked him to do. He’s trying to navigate the relationship and she doesn’t shut the fuck up her voice is annoying, and the way she speaks to him is disgraceful, he needs to get away from this toxic woman. He’s a good looking man and he could do a lot better. What does she have to offer him money no money is worth her abuse.

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    Agreed. I have to fast forward thru their parts because she is vile. There are literally trillions of things a.person can think about and talk about but for nikki it seems that all she thinks about is

    SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX

    A few thoughts about hair nails clothes makeup then back to

    SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX

    Her focus in lfe is not balanced and she clearly has mental and emotional issues that she needs to work through before being in a relationship with anyone

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    Do you think part of her hyper sexuality is maybe linked with her insecurity about being trans? And equating sexual chemistry or desire with being accepted? That’s my theory.

    Also it’s very tiring watching her constantly say she’s leaving. I feel like she only does that as a defense mechanism/to see Igor fight for the relationship etc

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      It could be a high sex drive, her hormone treatments (she mentioned taking some before her trip), insecurity about being trans, and/or wanting to be loved.

      But she’s just a toxic jackass that somehow makes me feel bad for Igor. The guy wears a nazi outfit and he still looks better than her toxicity. 🤦🏽‍♂️

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      So tired of her “hand washing” act with those talons of hers. No wonder Igor is afraid of her. Those claws could do some serious damage to some delicate body parts!

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    She has some serious issues, which she needs to address. I know she probably went through several hardships, trauma and discrimination which caused her to act insecure the way she is today, but I do think she struggles with her identity. She has this perception that everyone thinks she is trans or that they know. For example, in the restuarant she was telling Igor that that guy was clocking her, when reality he would have no idea she was trans, more likely just judging her for all the plastic surgery and outfit choices (they’re in a conservative society, and she is complete opposite). I think she struggles with her identity, and her hypersexuality is a way for her to sort of compensate. She feels loved or validated if Igor is attracted to her sexually. It’s not healthy.

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    I have to think anyone going to this length of surgery to make herself as Justigor said ‘a cartoon’ has to have some deep seated issues and it makes me wonder for her mindset

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    She thinks being a bimbo is what it takes to be a woman. She’s weirdly obsessed with sex and she needs attention, good or bad, 24/7. Weird weird weird.

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    Unpopular opinion but I think she just wants to know where she stands. If he is not into her physically, he shouldn’t drag it out. I don’t think she is really demanding that he has sex with her. If you are not into someone sexually, it is rare that you will be with the passage of time. It does happen but usually you are either turned on by a person or you’re not.

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    I am trying to remember if either Darcey or Stacey were sex hounds like Nikki? Seems like there has been someone (other than Angela) that demanded sex all the time.

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      Some of Darcey’s actions would have been considered pretty aggressive at some points by the Reddit hysterics who have no idea about real life human interactions…but she wasn’t much different than most drunk, pilled up chicks who want to have sex with the guy they’re with at the moment. Stacey not at all.

      “I want my secks tonight!” was thing around here for a while courtesy of Danielle.

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    It seems like no matter how many times he’s intimate with her she throws the same fit about him not being attracted to her and how she’s going to leave because she’s getting no seks. She’s like a broken record that could fight with a wall. All that fighting would turn anyone off.