Don’t ever let someone gaslight you into thinking what Rob the Knob did to Sophie was any less dishonest or selfish than physical cheating is. Physical cheating just hurts most of us in a different way. He didn’t do her any favors by soliciting inappropriate videos from women. He still snuck around behind her back and had sexual interactions with other people… twice. Ultimately, you decide what cheating is in your relationship, but please, don’t believe this “it could’ve been worse 🤷‍♂️” bullshit.

And maybe slam the door in the face of someone who shows up to apologize with a single rose… for cheating the 2nd time. You could probably do worse 🤷‍♀️

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    10 months ago

    So, he likes porn. Men of America, raise your hand if you like porn! Arms across America would shoot into the air. Many women join in, too. So, Sophie doesn’t like it (neither do I ) But, he is an adult. It is his choice. Yes, they have been through this argument before. She calls it cheating. He calls it entertainment when she isn’t around. Who can say who is right and who is wrong. They are immature.

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      10 months ago

      It’s not porn. If he was going on some random porn site and watching videos I doubt she would care. He was sexting women. Big difference between watching random videos and having conversations with women who then send him dirty videos etc. he’s emotionally cheating on his fiance.

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      10 months ago

      If he wants porn it’s free on YouPorn. He was soliciting women to send him pics & videos & sent them dick pics. That’s cheating