• AndyJCohen@alien.topB
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    1 year ago

    That’s the smile of a woman who knows her husband can’t leave her because he isnt legally allowed to divorce her

    • Tricky-Opportunity49@alien.topB
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      1 year ago

      US citizens can file for divorce in the US, send the records to the Philippines, and be granted a legal separation in the Philippines. A married Filipino actor/actress couple was granted legal separation like this because the guy was a US citizen.

    • Tuff_Wizardess@alien.topB
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      1 year ago

      Oh shit. That makes their story seem so much more grim to me. I feel sorry for their kids. I have been saying this since the beginning but they are Karine and Paul 2.0 and on warp speed at this rate.

      • AndyJCohen@alien.topB
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        1 year ago

        It’s what she said like after the wedding and I think she was joking (but not really lol)

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        1 year ago

        Sure, but it basically takes 2-5 years and costs $8-10k. It’s possible, but a complete pain in the ass. Which is why most couples there simply separate and start new families.

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          1 year ago

          Yes. I know a couple of people who’ve gotten annulments, and it was pricey. But, I think saying there’s no divorce in the Philippines without qualifying it, makes marriage sound a lot more ominous and oppressive than it actually is there

          • The_Crystal_Thestral@alien.topB
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            1 year ago

            Do you know the criteria for getting an annulment granted in the Philippines? I know it’s a super Catholic country but not sure if the process for annulment is a government thing or via the church or both.

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            1 year ago

            It is ominous. I’ve met dozens of women who are absolutely stuck for life. If I was raising a family there and had a daughter, I’d tell her never to marry a pinoy in the Philippines. Just live together. Which is what young people are doing there now to avoid the trap. Men can marry without consequences. They just hop to the next girl and start a new family.

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              1 year ago

              That’s accurate. When I first heard there was no divorce, though, I imagined a society with morality police, prison and lashings. It’s not that. But obviously, legalizing divorce would be much more equitable