Even though I think she could try harder to integrate, it’s clear they just want her gone at this point which doesn’t make it any easier. She never even mentions going back, but they constantly jump to that whenever there’s a problem rather than trying to find a solution. They seemed to really embrace her with the wedding and all but either it was for all for show or she’s really worn her welcome. TJ looks so fed up but that’s what he gets for deceiving her honestly.

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    Peeps really gunning for her because she is spoiled and unhinged. I see it differently. I think he misled and gaslit lit her to the point of eruption. I have been there! I need control of my surroundings and can’t stand being blindsided, I have had meltdowns from abuse. She should have dipped tf out after the wedding tbh.

    She may be “spoiled” in this case it is w/e. She isn’t used to the culture, and it is difficult to even get used to it when the family don’t like her. They are pushing extremes on purpose to make her feel uncomfortable. Additionally TJ’s evading the truth and inconsideration is toying with her in a foreign country where she’d feel insecure.

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      The fact that TJ doesn’t even translate his family’s conversations correctly shows how deceptive he is. Lies & omissions are not acceptable. I don’t blame her for not wanting to go downstairs in that cow shit & piss arena

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        That’s so true, I didn’t think of that. Of course that would feel so dismissive and left out!

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      I am with you on that view. TJ has not really made an effort to make sure she feel comfortable in her new home. He doesn’t try to really listen to her either.

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          I dont include his father in that. His father looks to be a guest/dhadow in his own house due to whatever grudge he has with his wife, which led to them sleeping separately for all of these years.

          But yes, TJ’s mom and Yosh definitely do not like her.