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Cake day: October 16th, 2023

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  • Peeps really gunning for her because she is spoiled and unhinged. I see it differently. I think he misled and gaslit lit her to the point of eruption. I have been there! I need control of my surroundings and can’t stand being blindsided, I have had meltdowns from abuse. She should have dipped tf out after the wedding tbh.

    She may be “spoiled” in this case it is w/e. She isn’t used to the culture, and it is difficult to even get used to it when the family don’t like her. They are pushing extremes on purpose to make her feel uncomfortable. Additionally TJ’s evading the truth and inconsideration is toying with her in a foreign country where she’d feel insecure.






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    10 months ago

    That’s called impulsivity and annoyance/aggravation/anger (big issue exacerbates if on substances/alcohol). I have stormed off in hella dangerous areas in a sulk or to get away from who was overwhelming me, and when I calmed down I freaked tf out.




  • I will probably get dogpiled for this, but here goes. The name thing is one of the least nefarious things she does. Igor isn’t a common Western name, and like many names you may not like it, and/or feel awkward using it. Yes, if that is their name, tough shit, but nuance exists. It isn’t unheard of to give your partner nicknames, play with it etc. If HE is fine with it, then w/e. If he expresses otherwise it is different. Some people don’t give a shit what you call them, some do.

    Unless you’re purposely deadnaming, I see no issue.