Truthfully, I thought she had a lot of patience especially when they were burning literal shit & sprinkling piss in the house. I think she’s a a basket case at times, but I haven’t seen her do anything that should equal this amount of hate (at least that I remember) . She was literally saying she was depressed and TJ didn’t do a single thing but gaslight her into going back to America and told her it was her own fault. His family seem insufferable & I’m sure most people on here wouldn’t be able to deal with that. Sharing a space with a brother & stepmom who are condescending and rude and demand you to do things that wasn’t planned would make me scream too.
When he said “I work all day! What about my emotional support?” I wanted to punch him through the screen. Like dude… Your WIFE is just asking for a hug and some comfort and you’re selfish enough to throw it back at her that she’s not supportive when you don’t even talk to her? I feel so bad for Kimberly. I hope she ends the marriage and stays in the US.
He has disdain for women who aren’t his mother
Oedipus complex!
She literally asked for a hug and his response was “in not going to do that”. She’s obviously got problems, but this scene changed how I view her. She used her words well (at first) and clearly stated that she’d suffering emotionally and needs some help/ support. He completely ignored what she was telling him and basically told her to just gtfo. If I were her, I’d gtfo. I see why she wants to stay with her husband, but at this point, it’s obvious he lied to her about what their life together would be. It’s fraud, really. I feel bad for her.
The people on Twitter who support TJ are icky. There’s so many of them too.
I wanted to reach through the screen and hug her so bad
Yes!! I hate TJ after that episode. He’s a gaslighting jerk and she needs to stay away from him. Divorce is the only option right now, or counseling so he can learn how to marry the two cultures. If they stay in India, that marriage is doomed though.
He was fed up with her by that point. Both her and TJ had reached their limits with the situation tbh. The difference is he remains relatively calm while she goes off the deep end.
3 months of her hiding out from his family, not trying to assimilate and blaming him for that most likely in the same manner and he’s not really feeling like hugging you is not surprising. She clearly has moved passed the omission of her wifely duties and that isn’t the issue. She’s bored. She doesn’t want to try with the family. All the planning, wedding planning, TV show she got caught up in and then reality set in.
She can sit with them all day and the brother would have to translate all conversations, it would be awkward for all. I wouldn’t eat anything from that womans kitchen either, she’s gross.
So sitting in your room all day alone for 3 months while not even attempting and blaming your spouse for your decisions isn’t…awkward? If the brother and mother don’t have an issue with translating why is that an issue?
Gross or not it’s cultural and she’s fully aware that she’s not in America and should know that some things we find gross they would probably find gross about us. She needs to get over it or help clean. Do something. Some revere cows while we slaughter them. Some eat dogs and cats where we have them as pets. Acclimate. She chose to move to another country and marry a man with different beliefs and a different culture. Her choice. Grow up or go home but playing victim and blaming her husband for her choices have gotten her no where. No brainer.