I’d love to hear y’alls opinion on “sending money home”.
Manuel had expectations of sending $250-$300 home per month while living in the US, which is a little wild when he can’t even work yet and seemingly hasn’t discussed it with Ashley at all.
On the other hand, he has multiple kids to support, something they don’t seem to show them talking about at all. And $300 in the US is significantly easier to come by than $300 in Ecuador, where the “average living wage” is around $500USD/month.
It tends to come up every season or so, obviously there’s some outrageous people looking to take advantage of others, but on the other hand a couple hundred bucks goes a lot further in some countries than others, and is typically a lot easier to make in some countries than others.
I’m reminded of David and Annie when they met with the builder after TLC killed her mom - the builder clearly saw David as easy pickings and gave them a wildly inflated quote, but also that’s around 5-10% of what that quote would have been in any American city.
What are your opinions on this? I think some people are out there to take advantage of others, but on the other hand if I could pay for my entire spouses family to live reasonably well for a small slice of my monthly take home pay it seems like a no-brainer to do it?
I think Ashley should’ve had that discussion with him before applying for a fiancé visa. She knows he couldn’t work, she knows he’s the sole provider of his family and having money to send is extremely crucial. There’s no food stamps, or food donations like food banks in Ecuador. She’s talking about 90 days isn’t enough to make a decision…the fiancé visa isn’t to make a decision, it’s only to get things together for a wedding. She told USCIS she would be responsible for him and that they are sure about getting married, she didn’t petition for a trial run of her fiancé. Latinos send a lot of money back home, is expected and is understood by many people who married someone in that position.