Not sure if I feel bad for Danielle because of the bait-and-switch she supposedly pulled after they got married, and the timeline is not clear. Do you think Yohan started cheating on Danielle only after she told him that they were going to stay in the D.R. (instead of moving to USA like he wanted)? Or was he cheating even before that?

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    If you marry a Sanky Panky there’s a 100% chance he’s going to be a Sanky Panky.

    Her ego was the problem. She thought she was so desirable that she could convince him to do whatever she wanted. She also (unsuccessfully) used money to try to control him. Bad plans all around.

    I don’t have sympathy for her because realistically, she’s taking advantage of people at her retreats the same way he took advantage of her. They were both playing a con.

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    Yohan is one of the coldest mfers on any of these shows. He for real thinks he just deserves money from American women just because he exists.

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    I assume he hooked up with other women during their entire relationship. Yohan’s relationship with Daniele is entirely mercenary on both their sides and I don’t think either of them ever made a sincere commitment.

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    Doesn’t matter when it happened, only matters that it’s wrong. Cheating is never the solution. Either he stayed faithful or just ended things with her.

    He allegedly married her and had already been cheating since before the marriage. He’s slimy.

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      Exactly, He probably got 5000 texts, email, tweets or whatever you get from fans these days. A women that wants to keep her man will not be bragging about his penis. Deavan, (And has anybody else notice the new girl that went to Korea is name Devan too, Lol) made sure erbody knew Jihoon had a micropeen. I’m thinking he’s not getting much play after that, Lol!!

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    There’s no way she couldn’t have known or at least suspected. She was in cahoots on his Only Fans. Did she not suspect that he was going to get propositioned.

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      I was blindsided by my exs cheating. He had an affair for 18 months. A lot was done during the day while I was at work. Lots of lying, manipulation and gaslighting.

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    Yohan’s cheating is inexcusable imo. Infidelity aside, he subjected Daniele to all kinds of STIs without her consent. They both tried to manipulate one another into their desired outcome and failed

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    can we do better and not try to justify his cheating because she did a “bait-and-switch”?

    This guy would have cheated regardless of where he was and what state their relationship was at

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      People dislike her so much that they make excuses for yohan, it’s gross. He was cold, spoilt, entitled, and cruel, and yet all we hear about is how Danielle didn’t move to the US as promised, like that excuses all his terrible behaviour 🙄 literally all he wanted was an American woman to provide him with a sweet life and a child.

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        If there is one thing that I have learned from this Reddit sub is that sometimes there isn’t a good guy. They are both awful.

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    Whaaat? I’m not up to date so I didn’t know he cheats! So he was cheating the whole time trying to get Danielle pregnant?

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    It is extremely common in Dominican culture for men to cheat. To the point that they’ll often mock men who are monogamous to their faces. It was such a non-reveal to me and my Dominican partner that we were shocked that Danielle didn’t think it was happening.

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    Two wrongs don’t make a right. Whatever Danielle did didn’t justify Yohan cheating on her like that. You can’t control how other people behave but you are responsible for your own behaviour regardless of how others treat you.

    According to Danielle the cheating started even before they got married so Danielle’s decision to stay in the DR had nothing to do with Yohan’s decision to cheat.

    I wonder if Danielle’s hesitation to take him with her to the US had to do with her having suspicions already early on that he wasn’t being faithful…

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      Danielle can’t live in the US because of her financial shenanigans. She would never pass a check from a landlord to get an apartment.

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      She should never have married him in the first place rather than get into a legal entanglement just to have unlimited on call access to his armsized body part and an actual arm to tote her purse. Unfortunately those body parts came attached to an equally calculating brain with an agenda of its own.

      They both FOFA what happens when you try to take advantage of someone you think you can get over on, but she now has to spend her intended luxury island lifestyle money getting rid of him and his oh- not-so-worth-it appendage.