I am single and watching 90 day makes relationships look like absolute hell on earth. Locusts up my wedding dress. Even when they are not poor, like Shekinah’s relationship all look hellish. Do these relationships reflect the real world’s? Gino and Jasmine are another hell too.

  • Top-Refuse4309@alien.topBEnglish
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    10 months ago

    As someone who also married in a 90df way (intercultural, sponsoring partner to the West), I’d say yes they are reflecting a norm from my experience. My marriage has also been pretty bad with culture clashes, LDR misery and whatnot. Would not recommend.

  • VengefulWalnut@alien.topBEnglish
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    10 months ago

    I mean, that’s kinda the point of the show. Find the most profoundly flawed humans and parade them for entertainment.

  • Fluffy_Iron6692@alien.topBEnglish
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    10 months ago

    I think it’s safe to say reality tv does not, in fact, reflect reality. Those are the norms for toxic relationships.

  • lovemoonsaults@alien.topBEnglish
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    10 months ago

    Pretty common when two people who hardly know each other and have nothing much in common marry in haste

    Then you throw in cultural differences and opinionated family, you get 90DF

  • Ravenous_Rhinoceros@alien.topBEnglish
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    10 months ago

    Kind of…there are good relationships too (Kenny and Armando, David and Sheila) but they don’t get shown as much because they’re too boring.