Kalani keeps saying Asuelu cheated 12 times, but she also alluded to his ‘cheating’ in America as online chats with cam-girls? She makes it sound like he physically cheated 12 separate times. What’s the real story here? I know chatting with girls could be considered cheating…but I feel like she’s intentionally making it sound like it was ‘physical’ cheating, to justify her own behaviour. Thoughts?
Yea it’s cheating but it’s not emotional cheating.
Porn addicts can’t do genuine emotional intimacy and connection with their real life partners, and get that feeling from porn.
I get that that’s not necessarily what you’re referring to here, but point being sometimes (“it’s not emotional cheating”) it kind of is. He’s not 100% emotionally in the relationship, even while he’s crying about making mistakes and wanting to fix it, and at the same time not really getting the impact of what he’s done (continuously by the sounds of it), and seeing himself as a victim. Dude needs help.