You’re entitled to think and believe whatever you want, but you probably didn’t need to state that you thought she was lying about being sexually assaulted online.
The guy gives every sign of being a sex addict, and it’s completely plausible. We’ve also seen her be nothing but honest.
She’s been married to, what seems to be, a sex addict who’s been continuously cheating on her for their entire marriage. Seems weird that she’s getting the most hate and the one being called trashy.
Porn addicts can’t do genuine emotional intimacy and connection with their real life partners, and get that feeling from porn.
I get that that’s not necessarily what you’re referring to here, but point being sometimes (“it’s not emotional cheating”) it kind of is. He’s not 100% emotionally in the relationship, even while he’s crying about making mistakes and wanting to fix it, and at the same time not really getting the impact of what he’s done (continuously by the sounds of it), and seeing himself as a victim. Dude needs help.
The guy has repeatedly stepped outside of the relationship, the semantics of what you want to call that don’t really change that. Each time that trust is broken it adds to the pile.
He should’ve gotten help a long time ago.
They both have major traumas and pretty common trauma responses for what they’ve been through.
They both need therapy, but it might not really be an option there.
The bullying probably doesn’t help.
Two wrongs? lol Stepping out once after all of that makes them even?
Sincerely hope you’re never in her shoes.