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Cake day: October 11th, 2023

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  • She says that but then also says that she works out compulsively because she is insecure about Jovi finding her attractive (and you can see from her body that that is not a lie).

    On the one hand, I applaud her for being firm on her boundaries with most people.

    On the other hand, a gruelling daily workout for the purposes of trying to “stay attractive for” your supposed life partner is far worse a fate to give yourself than “playing and jumping” for a little exercise, and shows that she has really terrible boundaries when it comes to Jovi, and that this affects her every day. So that is extremely confusing and sad.


  • I met my biodad when I was a teen, after my mom refused to tell me anything about him. They divorced when I was 2. He has been doing just fine. He literally said he didn’t want to fight my mom to see me, so just decided to not pay any child support, and start a new family instead (replace me). He also told me unsolicited that when I get married, “if she’s coming to your wedding, then I’m not coming.”

    I don’t know if he wonders why I don’t reach out to him after that. It took a lot out of me to initate that contact. I would assume that he most likely has once again forgotten that I exist at all. Personally, I’m deeply ashamed (and angry) to be genetically related to such a person. It’s true, he does treat me like a discarded neopet. I understand that Sarper’s son is probably seething. It is an unhealable pain, and I feel bad for him (the son, not a tear to spare for Sarper).