Good points. Now if only he could be that kind to his wife.

That sounds like the answer. For me, he’s too bland to justify me putting forth enough mental energy to form an opinion.

Kalani knows full well she doesn’t consider OF stuff cheating. If she did, she’d have been clear from the start instead of continually redo in the story in order to create the victim persona she wasn’t quite pulling off at the outset. She’s a complete phony looking to manipulate the audience.