This is very normal if your someone from a different country. My family is from Morocco and even after 30 years my mom still sends money back. It’s kind of like you made it to America so it’s your duty to support with what you can. My cousin just came here too and is expected to send as well. It’s not like a devious thing though it’s just cause in a lot of other places it’s hard to find work and such and the idea of America is very different in other countries then what we know it to be here. Many people in other countries think we’re all rich so.

All I can say is that I dated a Pakistani man for around a year. I had waaaayyyyy less contact with his family and even then I knew it wasn’t going to work out. There’s no way she spent time in India and with his family and didn’t know she was going to have to contribute to the family dynamic. I’m not saying it’s right or wrong but she wasn’t in the dark. She’s not mentally healthy and she needs therapy.

Amen. So he tries to knock her down several pegs so he can feel better about himself. I don’t feel bad for him because everyday he wakes up and chooses to be who he is. I hope she moves on and quickly.

I ain’t about to root for a little boy who can’t even work a regular job at 32. He’s a joke.

I dated a guy like this too. It’s unfortunate that instead of bettering themselves they just try and tear women down cause they have no self esteem no prospects nothing.