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Cake day: October 16th, 2023

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  • PappaFufu@alien.topBto90 Day FianceSarper’s shirt
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    10 months ago

    I don’t see why it’s an issue. It’s a casual lunch with his parents. Plus it is considered fashionable over there? And let’s be honest, there’s often a double standard when it comes to how the son is allowed to dress vs the daughter.



  • PappaFufu@alien.topBto90 Day FianceYohan taking money.
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    11 months ago

    As others have said it is the lie. Whether it is stealing depends on whether Yohan was authorized by Danielle to take money from the account whenever he wants. I mean he did know her pin and she seemed ok (at least on camera) with him using her card and taking the money. Clearly Yohan felt he was doing something wrong and it’s super shady given what Yohan had said about Danielle paying for everything but I wouldn’t say it rises to the level of stealing without more. Kind of like buying something for yourself and hiding it from your partner so you don’t get into trouble. But again, given what Yohan has said in the past it’s super shady






  • PappaFufu@alien.topOPBto90 Day FianceIn Jovi's Defence
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    11 months ago

    That is fine. It’s your life. But I would say that there would be a time when your partner may be hurt by your expectations. Because essentially you’re asking your partner to provide you with only the positive and none of the negatives.


  • PappaFufu@alien.topOPBto90 Day FianceIn Jovi's Defence
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    11 months ago

    Oh I understand the anger and I wouldn’t be okay if I was married to Jovi and going to strip clubs all the time but if you remove the stigma going to strip clubs doesn’t mean he doesn’t respect women. But we don’t know if he has dialed it back since getting married. Regardless, the point is that it doesn’t make him a monster. Going to strip clubs is clearly something that Jovi has enjoyed since he was a child. For whatever reason he never got tired of it. I would understand if they got divorced over Jovi continues to go to strip clubs.




  • Given society norms and such there’s a bit of a false equivalence here. If Yara goes to a male strip club I think Jovi would be ok with it. In much the same way, many would think attending a bachelor party with strippers involved is ok whether that is your partner or adult kid attending. But how many who are ok with that are ok if your partner or kid working as a stripper? It may sound hypocritical but let’s not pretend there isn’t a difference for most here.