She’s proof that you don’t have to be defined by your past mistakes. So many people stay in the addiction spiral because they hate themselves so much and it helps numb the self loathing. The ones who get out are the ones who can look in the mirror and just try to better everyday for the loved ones they hurt.
Justin the guy who posted pictures of himself dressed as a nazi? That Justin?
I have no problem with him being a bum. Lots of dudes are and it’s not worth the time/energy to try and convince them to grow up.
What gets me is his whole entitlement attitude. “I deserve a hot woman. I gotta knock her down a peg. It’s her fault I’m inadequate not mine.”
Instead of trying to knock her down, man the fuck up and get out of your cheap as hell college dormesque bachelor pad. Stop with your fake ass flex and get some substance.
Completely agree. I don’t fault him for wanting kids and being torn when he found out she didn’t. That’s the single biggest deal/no deal point in a relationship.
It’s literally everything he did afterwards that got me. The Jay-Z comparison, the “I’d just stay a player” line, the shooting hoops at the arcade instead of talkin it out. Just…no.
That outdoor bathroom is on a rough street.
Because she’s the most attractive person he could get. He’s not rich. His house is trashy. He wears those dumb ass hats all the time. He sucks…so he gets a comparatively sucky trophy wife with an extra helping of crazy.
Similarly, if she were more sane and nicer, she could probably snag a much more successful older man.
My stance on them is that I wish them and their relationship all the luck in the world and I hope it lasts forever…because they’re both awful and I wouldn’t wish either one of them on anyone else.