• candygirlcj@alien.topB
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        1 year ago

        Danielle never expected him to turn the tables on her. That’s what happens when you build a life around a delusion.

        Also, that confused the hell out of me. Does she mean he was taking Zumba classes or that he was teaching Zumba classes online, and she paid for the fees related to the platform? If he was taking classes, then technically, she was investing in herself cause he teaches dancercise classes, doesn’t he?

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    Everyone sucks here^ but the costumes were … chef kiss

    ^she said she would take him to the US after a year in DR and she made some moves like declaring bankruptcy without talking to him.
    I understand that they are married but he used HER bank card without her permission so even if half is “his” … it’s still theft. He’s no prize with that meat business and refusing to work like he used to when he lived at home.

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        He’s taking it because he knows it will bother her the most. He’s been trying to play it cool but deep down he’s vicious, petulant child who’s only using her for money and a green card . And idc that he’s been "up front " about it because he hasn’t. He hasn’t come out and said just get me there and then we’re done. He’s playing up the relationship/marriage too to get what he wants.

        • Outrageous-Depth@alien.topB
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          1 year ago

          Did she really care about him beyond his appearance and sex? She dissrepects and talks down to him all the time.

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    Johan is so soulless I swear. To be able to use a human like a free ride the way he does. He doesn’t even give her love in return. I could tell from the first episode this was a Sanky Panky situation, the second she mentioned the dollar sign tattoo after the engagement I was like RUN. But she’s shallow and wanted a big, handsome, young husband. She was not ambivalent to the fact that she was being scammed. Her behavior was all based on the fact she knew she was being scammed. I think she was just so desperate and addicted to the 8===D.

  • i-work-so-much-work@alien.topB
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    1 year ago

    I’m a teacher and that’s how I feel when it’s Spirit Week and I’m in some ridiculous outfit and have to have a serious talk with my class lol

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    Would’ve been more fitting to be wearing a clown costume! She caught Yohan trying to steal money a little at a time and still thinks she can fix it. Wake up and realize he’s just a sanky panky looking for a sugar momma. Sad.

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      I don’t think he was really stealing. She gave him the ATM card. She has him living there, she apparently knows he’s not working. She shit all over his butcher shop. He took like $40 at a time for walking around money. That shouldn’t be a relationship ender. A conversation about how to go about it? Sure. But her BS, this is mine, you don’t have anything is humiliating to him.

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      I don’t think she really needs to realize it, it’s what she sold him as the idea of their relationship before they got married. She’s a sex tourist passport sis just like Ed

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        I don’t think she was a sex tourist…that’s a bit of a stretch. She went on vacation and a sanky panky saw her and tried to get a better life. She thought he loved her because that’s the scam they do. He unfortunately picked the wrong woman. She’s not looking to be a sugar momma, she wants a husband. He’s a grown man talking about how he has no spending money because he has to pay bills and would rather go back and live with mommy. I think viewers need to put themselves in her shoes.

        • MarcoEsteban@alien.topB
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          She’s a moron to think she is in his league as a partner. The Sandy Panky thing usually involves multiple women that they meet at their place of employment. It may have started that way, but he committed to her, thinking he’d be going to the US. She knew that’s what he expected and didn’t tell him she had no plans to take him there. She intended to control him with finances, and then, when she had locked him down, she starts asking for half the expenses? There’s no way he’d make that at a Dominican wage.

          If she wasn’t intentionally a sex tourist because she thinks she’s inherently attractive to someone like him, that’s on her. And it probably owes to her own personality disorder where she puts a high value on herself, besides being very short (not criticizing short people, I’m short. But, it doesn’t have a high attractiveness value), older than he, overweight, and deep in debt in the US.

          The only real value she offers is the ability to get a US Visa. She’s incredibly stupid for being that naive. It was sex tourism on her part, probably Sandy Panky on his part. Neither is innocent.

        • RetroReactiveRaucous@alien.topB
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          Danielle originally told Yohan she was bringing him to the US. She did a last minute switcheroo on him and moved to the Dominican instead.

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            Smart move on her part. She probably started to see the signs that he was just using her for money and a green card. Can you imagine being responsible for him for 10 (?) years in the US? Danielle holds a lot of responsibility for their situation, but I do think she was in it for the right reasons. He can barely disguise his disdain for her and she can’t stop nagging him nonstop about money. There’s no saving this relationship, go home Danielle

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          All she talked about on their first season was how he had a mammoth cock

          Come on man call a spade a spade

          She just wants a hunky dude that obeys her

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            1 year ago

            Wasn’t it also hinted at that her ex had a big schmeat? I forget who, but someone brought up his shoe size. Big feet = big… socks. Sis is a size queen lol.

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              Funny thing is if the roles were reversed

              Some old dude going to the Philippines to buy a woman for her big tits

              Ppl would be up in arms

              No one cares when it’s a big cock though

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          I’m not sure the Danielle apologists are watching the same show as the rest of us. Johan has been painfully, irritatingly clear at every appearance–he wants to go to the U.S.. There’s been zero ambiguity, even to the status of his priorities. He wants to go to the U.S. more than he wants to be with her.

          There’s been no ‘scamming’ on his part–his interest in Danielle is predicated on her ability to get him to the U.S.

          Danielle is the one that decided to be dishonest. Her weaseling is hard to watch.