I guess it took Yohan being a disgusting pig to wake her up. Two complete “strangers” getting married…her wishing he was someone else the whole time, him only seeing dollar signs. Science says it takes at least 18 months to get to know someone inside/out. She is too old to have run off with some fantasy man and expecting it to work. Glad something concrete finally happened to make it stop! I was SO sick of them!

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    I think the biggest shift was the relationship started transactional for both and at some point shifted on her side and then it became unsalvageable. If it had stayed transactional and probably not “marriage” she could have had a FWB situation probably for years.

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    The entire relationship from the beginning until the end consisted of conflict and dysfunction. To call it a “beautiful life” is a stretch by any means of the word and contains cognitive dissonance of epic proportion.

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    Yeah it’s been a while with them. We all saw it from day one. If you wanna buy a man, you have to pay. If you want a girl to pay you gotta be that man. Neither were either and it was a disaster

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    Her literally threatened her about “I won’t pay a dime to live in DR, I want to go to America”. I just don’t see how she didn’t see the 🚩. She was definitely dickmotized. It must have been fantasy level D to ignore the red flag that popped up every-time he opened his mouth.

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    I honestly don’t feel sorry for her either. She got the restart to her life she wanted, and kind of built a relationship on lies on manipulation and he did the same.

    She needs to put on her big girl pants, get a job teaching English in Santo Domingo and go from there. She’ll make good money and out of an expat community. I’ve heard her Spanish and it’s not perfect but she’s ready. It was always the way she should’ve done it and I’m sure she knows that.

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    Sex tourist got what she deserved. Sex tourist also created her husband a sex worker’s cam site and then was shocked he actually engaged in sex work. 😂

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    I caught that too. For her “a beautiful life” is working part-time - if it can even be called that - essentially getting paid under the table to do her hobby, beaches and gorgeous weather, good sex… so in that case maybe SHE was living a beautiful life, but he wasn’t.

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    It’s funny because she was still terrible and repellent every step of the way. He might have had a pang of guilt or doubt if she was tolerable at all.