Kalani keeps saying Asuelu cheated 12 times, but she also alluded to his ‘cheating’ in America as online chats with cam-girls? She makes it sound like he physically cheated 12 separate times. What’s the real story here? I know chatting with girls could be considered cheating…but I feel like she’s intentionally making it sound like it was ‘physical’ cheating, to justify her own behaviour. Thoughts?

  • Small-Raccoon-5066@alien.topB
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    1 year ago

    Who cares if it was once or 12 times? Who cares if it was an actual physical affair or online emotionally?

    Fact is, he did it. And now his boys get to grow up without their Dad in the home. That’s the true thing to care about.

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      1 year ago

      There’s a world of difference between physical cheating and talking online. That’s like saying theft and murder are both equally bad.

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      1 year ago

      Wdym online emotionally? Dude, looks like he’s clueless 24/7, lol, AND I highly doubt he still texts these OF thots…

      Buying pics isn’t cheating. It’s just weird, like I’m confused by this… So you’re telling me you’ve never watched porn while in a relationship before? Do you always immediately look the other way when you see someone who is “beautiful” or “gorgeous” in person or on TV? Like what!? Haha

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            Porn addicts can’t do genuine emotional intimacy and connection with their real life partners, and get that feeling from porn.

            I get that that’s not necessarily what you’re referring to here, but point being sometimes (“it’s not emotional cheating”) it kind of is. He’s not 100% emotionally in the relationship, even while he’s crying about making mistakes and wanting to fix it, and at the same time not really getting the impact of what he’s done (continuously by the sounds of it), and seeing himself as a victim. Dude needs help.