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  • AdEastern3223@alien.topBto90 Day FianceMary & Brandon
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    11 months ago

    Mary is awful but Brandan’s mom is almost as bad. Negative, self-centered, and petty is all Brandan knows a woman can be. He’s a little boy who has no chance of doing better unless he completely bails on Mary and their child. I doubt he will do that, though.


  • Oh, and OP, I’m not responding to your point as much as I am the people who are coming at you that this is about Mary. I agree with you that the mom is negative AF and her negativity isn’t helpful. She should come in with a little bit of grace of for no other reason than that Mary and Brandan are so young. My son and his girlfriend are this age and I constantly keep in mind that I’m supposed to be the mature one, being 25+ years older than they are.


  • It’s not an either/or thing. Both Brandan’s mother and Mary suck. They are negative, possessive, manipulative, petty, insecure, and abusive people. Brandan learned this is all he’s worth, and he’s acting accordingly. The situation is so dead end, and it’s not fun to watch. I’ll be relieved when they aren’t on my favorite guilty pleasure shows anymore. I can’t delight in their stupidity because it’s more sickness and unresolved trauma than it is just plain dumb decisions.