Yup I’ve been saying this the entire time too ever since the first episode this season. I don’t understand why everyone here in Reddit loves TJ so much and bashes the shit out of Kimberly all day every day. And Reddit always downvoted the hell out of anyone who thinks TJ and his family are the abusive ones.
I still defend Kimberly and blame TJ but I get downvoted and attacked. TJ bait and switch. He present one idea of how life will be then blind side her and even told camera crew he lied because if she knew the truth of what’s expected of her she would leave him. TJ and his family are the arses here. Yes screaming and yelling isn’t healthy way of handling conflict but neither is TJ crying to his mommy every time they have a conflict or talking over her nor interrupting her nor patronizing her nor lying to her etc . They both suck but TJ’s deceit and deception make him suck more in my eyes.
Bad plastic surgery, days or weeks old caked on makeup, and looking tired and or pissed off but that’s nothing new
She makes everyone else on the show look like good people and not money hungry whores like her?
She probably never house broke him or neutered him. Male dogs even after being neutered do tend to still mark their territory. Also white dogs get those tear stain things. You can minimize it some with special wipes and conditioners etc but it just happens. Small breed dogs also are stubborn and hard to housebreak. My last dogs a few years ago were chihuahua and they were fine going potty outside except in snow or rain they refused so had to use the wee wee pads in the winter time but at least they went on the pads like 95% or more of the time. Housebreaking is the hardest thing but it helps to start early, get a crate that looks unusually small and cruel to most people, just barely big enough to stand and stretch and turn around, as they turn they should be brushing against the sides of the crate. Put bedding and toys and stuff in crate. Crate train them by leaving crate open and putting exciting things they like like a special toy or treat that they only get there and no where else. Gradually start closing door for a few minutes at a time staying in their line of sight then increasing the time and leaving the room etc. you want them to learn crate is good and safe and that you’re always coming back. Do not free feed them. Set up a schedule. Feed then within twenty minutes go potty and stay outside with them until they go and then lots and lots of praise like a crazy person like you just won a lottery and then back inside, not necessarily in their crate, they can be loose but keep an eye on them especially when they are puppies and a small breed like coco. They need to learn outside is for potty and inside is for play and cuddles and food and whatever else. If they just want to play outside and don’t go potty back in their crate and try again in 20 minutes.
He probably feels conflicted. He probably does find her visually appealing but he’s twice or thrice her age and even the little blue pill isn’t doing it for him anymore.
So then he feels insecure and ashamed and sad and angry and frustrated but he has to pretend to be all turned on and ready to go. I’m sure he wants to make her happy but he just physically can’t.
Nature is cruel lol women hit their sexual peak in their 30s and men hit it in their teens. Jasmine needs to be with someone younger who can satisfy her but there’s one thing Jasmine loves more than sex and that’s money and that’s where dating someone older comes in. It’s her choice to be in this situation.
But Jasmine DOES want a luxury lifestyle. She always has to have the best. Best apartment in Panama. Best clothes shoes hair extensions makeup furniture bedding coco’s clothes and grooming and accessories, hair done, nails did, ass implants, fake huge titties, etc. if she was that concerned about her kids or sister she would be giving them money saving to bring them over and or saving for education and saving for things that actually matter. Jasmine is one of the fakest most materialistic self absorbed people to ever be on this show. Only time I ever felt bad for her was when he asked her to not bring coco.
Yeah I’m not excusing his behavior. She needs to leave. I just see a lot of these posts say he seems annoyed or unhappy or doesn’t like her isn’t attracted to her and I’m just saying it’s not a matter of liking or not liking someone it’s deeper than that.
Yes he has a porn strip club sex addiction and probably cheats on her too. I mean he is still chatting with and talking to strippers which goes beyond just going to the club. And he has every opportunity to cheat since he’s away for months at a time. He is gross.
I don’t think those things mean he doesn’t love her. He’s being defensive and reactionary. I’m sure he’d love to give her a mansion on the beach but reality is he can’t afford it. Not even sure how the hell he afforded the visa when he can’t even afford a house with a bathroom. To him that’s boogie because that’s how he lived all his life. To hear her say she wants more than he can provide hurts and scares him. He’s afraid of not being good enough of losing her or things not working out but instead of communicating those things in a healthy way he turns it into an attack on her. He may not even realize what he’s doing or he may be doing it intentionally to control her and if he breaks her down he might feel like she won’t leave him and start thinking she’s lucky to have him or etc.
I never thought she was ugly. She is very cute physically with both a cute face and body. But her personality is batshitcrazy but then so is Brandon’s. They both need serious mental health help ASAP please for them and their children’s happiness and safety.
That’s it exactly!!! All these people who keep commenting she didn’t do her research drive me nuts!!! TJ deceived her!!! He presented himself and his family as non traditional and more westernized or modernized. No honey you won’t have to clean and cook for my family. No honey you will have privacy and autonomy. No honey I will be there to help you. Etc. He LITERALLY told film producers like twenty episodes ago that he was LYING and Hiding the truths from her until after marriage because she would QUOTE leave him if she knew the truth. Anyone would flip the fuck out knowing their whole relationship was a lie from the get go and suddenly thrown from one reality or expectation into another. Anyone who says they wouldn’t react the same way is full of shit. I’ve seen white women and black women and Asian women and Indian women and Latina women flip their shit screaming where you can’t even understand them on Jerry Maurry and similar tv shows over way less offensive shit than this. Kimberly needs to get the fuck out of this psychotic abusive manipulative assholes house. And never look back!