She doesn’t want to work on your farm and she doesn’t want to get up early. If that’s your condition to live there, they need to know that. But geeez stop being so controlling and horrible. Maybe Brandon doesn’t want your stupid farm. Let him be his own adult!!!

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    10 months ago

    Lol i’m literally watching this season for the first time right now!

    I have somewhat mixed feelings on this. I do agree that farmwork is NOT for everyone, so if julia just straight up can’t handle it, then they shouldn’t be mad about that. However, since she is staying in their home & eating their food for free, she SHOULD be helping out around the house at a minimum, because that’s what well-mannered adults do. Brandon’s parents are definitely selfish assuming that julia would wake up at 6am to do farm work, but I also think that julia seems very spoiled and lazy.

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      10 months ago

      Helping around the house, sure. Working on the farm, nope. She’s from a big city

      In fact, she shouldn’t be doing a lot of work on the farm before she gets her work permit. It might technically be a violation

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      10 months ago

      Wanted to add, what i really couldn’t stand was them throwing a fit about them wanting to get married mother’s day weekend lmao. Who gives a shit ??? As a mom myself, I really can’t understand someone being that upset about someone else daring to have an event mother’s day weekend. Even if it was my damn birthday weekend, I wouldn’t care.

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        10 months ago

        I would probably warn my kid that it might make it tougher to celebrate their anniversary just the two of them if they have kids, because the kids will want to spend Mother’s Day with their mom, but I wouldn’t be upset about them getting married on Mother’s Day or that weekend.

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            10 months ago

            Obviously, but most people with jobs have to celebrate their anniversary on the closest weekend and that’s going to often conflict with spending Mother’s Day and be two dinners out on the same paycheck and possible gifts, etc. It’s harder to make your anniversary special if it’s close to Valentines or Christmas or Mother’s Day or one of your birthdays.

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      Agree. She’s totally being a brat, but geez I feel like they just keep nagging and nagging. It’s driving me nuts