That was exactly herbs point

Grooming is intentional tho. You don’t accidentally groom someone.

Buying alcohol is not grooming behavior, and her friends were already drinking. Grooming is intentional. His intentions were not with Penny. We can make the case that he was grooming Charlotte. But Penny was not groomed. I underwd you want to see that because of your experience being groomed. As another person who was groomed, bojacks actions may not be good. It doesn’t make him a groomer.

Yes. Because grooming is intentional. It doesn’t happen by accident. Doing nice things for someone isn’t grooming unless you have the intent to start a sexual relationship or abuse someone. A lot of people throwing the word around takes away from the actual meaning.

So does that mean aunts and uncles are grooming their neices and nephews? Because they don’t have intent to sleep with them. Yes bojack is a manipulative but that doesn’t make him a groomer. Grooming is intentional not accidemtal

BOJACK DIDNT GROOM PENNY! Grooming is intentional. He didn’t do anything intentionally.

The only reason why I’m okay with him nit dying was because Diane didn’t have to live with the disgusting thing bojack did to her. Bojack never wanted to get better. He only found excuses. He’s only sober because he can’t get drunk in prison. People like him do t get better. They just find excuses to blame others.

I was in a similar position with a friend. They did the same. Called me, knowing I couldn’t be there because like Diane. I was trying to better my life. It took about 2 weeks before i found out they were okay. I didn’t see them for some time. But it was the same situation. What if this was the last time… it was. Idk if they are better or not. It’s been about 15 years now. I don’t have a reason to talk to them.

Sometimes, no matter what others say and do. You only see what you wanna see.

Oh boy wait until you find the group of guys who band each other but aren’t gay cuz cuz they have a wife and kids.

He did. He rejected her twice. She probably would have opened the door either way.

I didn’t have the heart to tell him. So I just said yes

80 bucks? No thank you.

Bojack horsamn. Everyone had a shitty childhood. But bojacks childhood was so heartbreaking. At keast Sarah Lynn’s mother told her she loved her.

It was fashion.

“when I was your age, I got sad. A lot. I didn’t come from such a great home, but one day, I started running, and that seemed to make sense, so then I just kept running. OP, when you get sad, you run straight ahead and you keep running forward, no matter what. There are people in your life who are gonna try to hold you back, slow you down, but you don’t let them. Don’t you stop running and don’t you ever look behind you. There’s nothing for you behind you. All that exists is what’s ahead.”

“I actually met Penny through a mutual friend. Kyle and Charlotte are divorced now and it it’s not your fault. Not exactly. She told Kyle what happened how how she regretted not pursuing you after you kissed her. The kids are out of the house so it was easy to leave. Me and Penny are now in a relationship now and the it’s pretty amazing. You definitely missed out on two amazing people. If you know what I mean. Charlotte and Penny ate amazing.”